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American Women Don't Like Asian Girls ! Why ?
By Dao Jones, Sat Dec 10th
Any man who has dated Asian girls who live in the United States,has witness the wrath, jealously and prejudice of American womentowards Asian girls. I know I have, as have many of my friends. The stereotypical hassome merit: American women can't compete against the Asians'sexuality, American women feel threaten and some American womensimply think Asians are stealing their men. These all bear sometruth. My experience is first hand. I dated many Asian girls and haveheard the comments. If we frequent a typical American club, Ihave had my dates threaten by American women in the restroom. Intime, Asian clubs sprung up in the United States. At an Asianclub, American women are welcome.
I have never seen an American lady being threaten by Asians in atypical Asian club. It just isn't their nature. The crowd inthese clubs are usually Asian girls and American men. There are many Asian girls in the U.S., especially from thePhilippines. A lot of these girls arrived via meeting anAmerican G.I. I really don't know the percentage, but there isno doubt that most Filipina girls have a military connection insome way. They met in the Philippines, got married, and came to the UnitedStates with their military husband. Consequently, you'll meetAsian girls in clubs who are married. If you mingle with Asian girls that frequent the clubs for anylength of time, you will eventually meet ladies who areunfaithful. This unfaithfulness is how Filipina girls arebranded as whores by American women. This doesn't carry the samestigma for American women who may do the same. Hypocrisy isalways evident when behaviors of the two cultures are compared. What the American GI has discovered is now catching on withnon-military men. Asian dating sites have sprung up all over theinternet. Some of these sites try to exploit the Asians'sexuality. However, there are many Asian girls who want to meet a sinceregentlemen for a relationship. As attractive as Asian girls may be, American men are alsocaptivated by the Asians' behavior towards men. A man's dream ofhaving a wife who wants to please him, appreciates his love andtreasures his efforts in making a home seems to have been foundby American men in the Asian culture. You'll hear American men call these values "traditional values"because at one time these were the values that held the Americanfamily together. The tired argument about these women being a servant to theirhusband, is one sided. Do these women like serving theirhusband? Yes, most do. But not as slaves. They are not forced to do so, but have the desire to pleasetheir man out of appreciation and love. These girls are doingwhat they want to do. I repeat, they WANT to please their man,do things for him and show their appreciation. In turn, these men are happy, want to provide for their wife andhave no desire to look elsewhere for this appreciation. It'schemistry that once prevailed many years ago in the UnitedStates and has been lost in the myriad of women rights inAmerican society. Why do Filipina women want to marry a foreigner from anothercountry? I'm not going to argue the fact that these ladies wanta better life. It's probably true. I will argue that most women, no matter the country, want tomarry in to a better life. Again, it is the hypocrisy of who youare that makes a behavior negative or not. Most women, in theUnited States, need to look in a mirror before judging ladiesfrom other cultures. Besides wanting a better life, most Asian ladies want bettertreatment. In a Filipina lady's eyes, men from the West treatwomen better then men from their country. Is there truth tothis? The feed back I get from the ladies at my website is yesor at least they perceive it to be so. I'm sure the social status of your family makes a difference ofhow you are treated regardless of your gender, but I'm talkingabout the average Filipina girl. The difference is simple. Inher country what she does for her man or husband is expectedwithout appreciation. Here in the United States, most men come to expect a lady isn'trequired to serve him, to want to please him, and love him forwho he is. When an Asian girl does, his appreciation is certain.For an Asian lady, the man doesn't have to be super rich or looklike a movie star, just treat her well and show his love. It's a merry-go-round with respect and love as it's focal point.She wants to please him, he loves her for pleasing him, sheloves him for showing he appreciates her love and so on. All the above words, statements and my observations have theirexceptions. There is no doubt, there are bad men in everycountry. There is no doubt that some women only
are in it forthe money or to get a free pass to the United States. These are the exceptions and it is this minority that the mediaand others will use to blanket a whole culture in a negativelight. I'm sure most of you have seen in print or on the newsabout "mail order bride" scandals or "mail order bride"mistreatment as if this defines all courtships and marriagesthat develop through the internet. If a few instances defines the standards, then just getting amarriage license in the United States should have a warningimprinted in gold. No matter if a couple met through the internet or at theneighborhood church, you have your share of scandals andmistreatment. The last culture of experts that needs to begiving advise about how to meet and marry a women is the UnitedStates - is there any other country whose divorce rate ishigher? The Philippines does not condone online dating sites. For thatmatter, it is against the law. I'm not going to quote their lawhere, but it has to do with moral issues. Again hypocrisy!. If the Philippines are so worried about women rights, there areother issues they could concentrate on besides taking away awomen's right to find happiness, love and a better life forherself. She wouldn't be looking elsewhere, if the Philippine governmenttook care of her needs. Should I complain? Probably not, or mostFilipina women would not be joining online dating sites to meetAmerican men. My objection to this law is how it is used in the Philippines asa political vehicle rather then sincere concern for women'srights. Hypocrisy, it is everywhere, isn't it? I started this article to comment on why a lot of American womendespise Asian girls. Not all American women, but a lot. But thediscrimination doesn't stop there. It is evident in the media,politics and indeed in their own country. The people who are forgotten, are the couples themselves. Whynot just ask them? If two people who found each other are happy,in love and want to be together, why does the media andpolitician think they know better. More then likely, it isn't about what the couple want, but moreabout politics and sensationalism to sell news. Take yourhatred, your narrow minded views and negative publicityelsewhere and let us find love - even if we find it on theinternet. Do you want to know more about Asian Girls ? Click here to find lovely girls from Thailand - Philippines - Japan - SouthKorea - Vietnam - China - Hong Kong - Singapore - Malaysia - Taiwan - Russia - India - Indonesia OR GO TO OUR ADULT DATING PAGES : Thailand- Philippines - Japan - SouthKorea - Vietnam - China - Hong Kong - Singapore - Malaysia - Taiwan - Russia - India - Indonesia Best regards Dao Jones About the author:Dao Jones, the founder of Asian-Girls-Dating.com is connectingAsian girls to western men in a very unique and succesfull way.Since 2001 she is giving dating and writing tips, as well aslots of information about the special caharcteristics of Asianwomen. Asian-Girls-DatingHomepage
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